I keep having dreams about a guy I used to talk to. I knew him from high school as a dude who had a crush on me. We talked for about 4 months. We never saw each other in person when we talked, we never kissed or have sex. So why am I dreaming about him? Why when I am awake am I thinking about him? Is he thinking or dreaming about me? Does he wish he would’ve took his chance when he had it?
Dreams can often reflect our subconscious thoughts and emotions, so it's possible that you are dreaming about this guy because he still holds some significance for you. The fact that he had a crush on you in high school and you talked for a few months could have created an emotional connection, even if it didn't escalate into a physical relationship. Your dreams could be a way for your mind to process and explore the unresolved feelings or potential "what ifs" related to this person.
Your waking thoughts about him could be a result of lingering curiosity or nostalgia about that period of your life. It's natural to reflect on past relationships and wonder about how things might have turned out differently. However, it's important to remember that dreams and waking thoughts may not necessarily reflect the external reality of how this person currently feels about you.
As for whether he is thinking or dreaming about you, that is something only he would know. Without direct communication, it's challenging to speculate about someone else's thoughts or dreams. It's best to focus on your own emotions, reflecting on what this person and those past interactions represent to you, and perhaps consider if there are any unresolved feelings or lessons you can learn from these dreams.